Owning Your Gifts as a Highly Sensitive Person

Hi there, Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) -

There is something that I hear SO often from Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) that really pushes my buttons.

It sounds something like this:

"I have tons of flaws but..."

"Not to brag..."

"Not to sound arrogant..."

or some variation of this.

This makes me SO MAD!

Not because I think they shouldn't say whatever is about to come after the "but."

It's because they're trying to keep others from judging them by judging themselves first.

It's about chasing "humility" - at the expense of your self-worth and a genuine sense of who you are.

I hate it when people I care about put themselves down (before anyone else can) because they think it protects them from other people's judgements.

Humility is Overrated.

Trying to stay humble often means saying things that negate owning your gifts, talents, and accomplishments.

And every time you stifle yourself from truly owning the amazing things about yourself, you make it more likely you'll feel like an imposter and fear your flaws and weak spots.

It's not arrogant to be proud of yourself.

Arrogance is putting someone else down so that you feel superior.

That's not what you're doing AT ALL, HSP!

When you're claiming your gifts and your accomplishments, both as an individual and as an HSP, you don't need to compare yourself to anyone else to recognize your own self-worth.



In this week's episode of the Highly Sensitive Club, I share some real-life stories that have changed my perspective on pride and humility, and I'm doubling down on the idea that humility is overrated.

Listen on your favorite podcast app and / or watch on YouTube.

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In the episode, I cover:

• The difference between arrogance and true pride in yourself.
  

• What forced humility really does to your mental health and wellbeing.
  

• Why pride actually helps you experience healthy humility.
  

• Behind-the-scenes tales of how pride has reinforced my sense of self-worth and satisfaction - and how it can help you too!
  

I could seriously go on and on about this topic, but here's the main point.

You don't have to dim your light and stay small in an attempt to be accepted and loved.

The brighter you let your light shine, the more you let people see and experience the real you.

And the world needs more of the real you.

Not the fake, dumbed down version of you who isn't allowed to take credit for the accomplished bad@$$ you are.

The you who's strong and empathetic and smart and gifted and fantastic at connecting with others.

That version of you is one you can be proud of.

Here's to bucking humility and taking pride in your true self,

Steph

P.S. Not sure how to start owning your true gifts? Book a call with me. It's a free 60-minute call where you'll get clarity around your unique path and gifts, a plan to honor that path, and someone who can see your talents and values from a mile away. I promise, it'll be worth your while.